Love or Respect
Love is one of the most if not the most talked about topics in the world, definitely after Nft, crypto, covid, racism, war, and capitalism…. Okay, maybe it is not that important.. But we are still gonna talk about it.. bcz why not??
Love is a controversial feeling, like so many people have said so much about love that I am still confused about what to feel… But we all have at least some person on this earth whom we love, it can be our parents, siblings, cousins, friends, relatives or anybody else.. We love them we know, don’t ask me how? It's just a default feeling.. But most often than not, we feel that we have an argument with our loved ones as they do something we don’t like.. My question is, isn’t it suppose to be the opposite?? Shouldn’t we support our loved ones regardless of what they do??
I have mixed opinions about this topic.. Firstly I thought people love us and rely on us, bcz they find a safe place with us, so we shouldn’t judge them and support their thinking and doing no matter what…
But it is also true that it will not help them.. As they should know the other opinion, and make the choices which are wiser… If we don’t say anything to them, that will mean that we don’t care.. This is the case for parents, they say us to not do some stuff and do some stuff, as they want us to be good and be a better person, but that is definitely love…
So what should be the boundaries in loving relationships.. I think the boundaries are different for each person, and we have to make them clear ourselves.. What is the kind of thing, my parents can talk about me, and what is the thing that my friends should suggest??
Here comes the question of respect.. We need to have at least some amount of respect for the person we love.. Bcz love without respect becomes boundaryless, which is not comfortable for anyone.. Love should be always within limits or the suggestions or advice of influences, everything should be within the boundary.. People fight, not bcz they don’t want good for the other person, rather they want something better and want to suggest that, but we should always know and respect that we only can suggest and they have a working mind to decide about themselves, and if we respect the person and their decisions, then we will definitely not enforce our thoughts on them or not get angry if they do not wish to follow our words..
This can lead to a better relationship in any field.. I think the most important feeling a person can have for the others they love is respect.. We first need to learn how to respect anyone, and their own life, own decisions and their privacy…
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