Adity Sanyal

We live in a very judgemental society.. We always want to discuss others in other words which mean gossiping and also we judge other people’s behaviour and choices of life that is if what they are doing is right or wrong.. We always think that there is a set of things which are right and a set of things which are wrong.. The rules vary in different societies.. But we never consider the individual thinking of a person when it comes to others.. There are people with a kind of mentality where they don’t have any individual; thoughts or goals, they do what everyone else does, but if anybody wants to do something new we go against them and judge them.. Personally, I think if we don’t say our thoughts to them it is okay, but when we start to talk about our judgement about them to their face is not right.. As we shouldn’t desire people to be out of total judgement, but until they keep it to themselves it is fine.. Through many ages, years and centuries, many judgements broke the morale of t...

  From the very beginning of our life, we are taught to not be selfish and that we should be selfless.. But why is this the case? Because we want to grow as a society and if we started to think only about ourselves, then we may not help other people grow in their respective areas of life, which may not lead to a very successful life for other people or as a society.. And also elderly people want to control us, and if we only think about ourselves, and not even our family, then it will not be that easy for them to control us.. But for me, I think it is very important o be selfish.. We should always think about ourselves first, then if we have enough time then we think about other people around us.. Because being selfless, is a choice, but being selfish is a must have. because we don’t be selfish in this day and age, then we must be left out of all the things happening around us.. We should think about ourselves first and make sure, what we want as a person, and what we want to achie...

In the history of mankind, there are many dark eras… We serviced all of those and strive for greatness.. Many of those dark eras were created by religion.. It was always a topic of debate among people.. People always fought and killed each other to make their religion established.. The geographical locations had their boundaries based on geographies and religion.. But within the last century, things changed a lot.. No, not all the fights related to religion stopped, but the situation got better a lot.. New experiments lead to a new understanding of the world, and the technological advancement was unbelievable.. The most advanced of technology has happened in the recent decade.. Which lead people to come out of their thought of religious superiority.. People stopped believing in the supernatural power as much as they did in the past.. There are many people who stopped believing in god.. Science became an undetectable part of human life.. But when science started to give explanations ...

Trying to find the meaning of life is unique to humans.. No other animal has this desire to find out the meaning of life.. Humans did most of their growth and advancement, regardless of technology, societal, and psychological mainly bcz of this desire.. We didn’t do anything to have a better life, rather we wanted to relax and have more time to think about our existence.. There are very few humans present in today’s world, who never thought about the meaning of life at least once in their lifetime.. People always try to explain things happening around them, but they use various methods to answer the questions to satisfy their needs to answer.. The several types of ways people give answers, i.e. science, religion, psychology, spirituality or any other subject taught to us in school all try to find the truth of the universe and how we came into being and where we are going.. But there is no absolute answer to this question for everyone.. People believe different things.. When we need t...

Money never buys happiness. It never did and it will never do that.. Doesn’t having enough money good?? And doesn’t it help to live a nice life.. It surely does.. But it will not be enough if you are unhappy.. As no money can buy happiness. People may earn a to of money by doing something they don’t want to do and still feel sad, as they don’t want to do the job.. it shouldn’t be the case.. Most of us, when trying to have a job, try to find one with more money, but we never consider our happiness, and how will we feel for the rest of our life doing the job, maybe for 30 to 40 years.. Do we want to feel bad or 30 years to earn a little more money?? We spend a big amount of time in our everyday life on our professional duties, do we really want to feel miserable doing the thing, that we are supposed to do every day for the rest of our life…?? People don’t think that.. Money becomes more important to them in every scenario.. There are two paths to solve this problem.. One path is mos...

Only 1% of people in this world are rich, and studying shows us that money always stays with that 1% of people from ever.. And we rest of the people of the world, need to think about our money and life all the time, to make a living.. We are having this generational burden from birth.. We tend to think that people need to feel bad and suffer to get enough money.. And life is hard.. This mentality of ours never lets us have enough for a living.. Whenever you say you are gonna earn money by having fun, people will judge you and think you are less serious and don't know the situation outside.. But this is not true, people can earn a taught living through working hard, but if you want to enjoy your life, you have to have fun.. Not because e you don’t know the truth.. Because studies have shown that if you want to be rich, you have to best in the field and produce stuff at a rate that no one can ever produce.. If you want to be the best and fast, then you must spend a lot of time and ...

  Jack of all trades, master of none.. We have all heard this phrase from ever.. I never gave any thought to this phrase, until very recent.. People around us, use this phrase mainly to denote the people who are doing a lot of stuff and do know a lot of stuff from a variety of fields.. This is however not a compliment, rather they say that the people who are doing multiple stuff at once, tend to be not good at anything.. This is our preconceived notion about a person who is excited about a lot of things.. However, this is not true.. As it may seem very relevant to some people as people who do a lot of stuff gets less amount of time to focus on specific stuff, so there is a chance they will not be a master of a single trait, like someone who is doing only one thing every day for years.. But in practical experience, it has been seen that the opposite happens most of the time.. As people who have diverted interests and try to do multiple things over a period of time tend to be more...

Although it is one of the terms with the most negative connotations, most people on the earth always claim to have some regrets.. What is a regret..?? Regrets are the feeling of losing out on the opportunities we had in past, which we think we should have taken.. It can be various types of regrets.. Regret of not studying well in school or college, the regret of not behaving right with people, the regret of not following our dreams, the regret of not doing our best in any situation, regret of missing out on stuff etc.. But I think although having regret is very obvious for people, still can be removed from your life.. Many people say many things when they reach their old age or middle ages that they miss out on.. We can hear the stories of what they regret the most, and make decisions in our life, as we don’t have to regret the same things… I think the most valuable thing we can do is to do a value exercise.. We can take a day off our life and make a list of things we want to do in ...

In ancient Indian traditions, gurukuls are one of the bases of life.. Life was divided into 4 stages, i.e. Brahmacharya, Grihastha, Vanaprastha and Sannyas.. At the beginning of life, a child went to ashrams as a school and stay there for their entire childhood, and teenage years to learn and study.. It mostly started at the age of 5 years and went until the age of 25 years.. In this time, the children had to work really hard, for their own living and they are taught many moral and technical lessons.. The gurus provide everything they needed in daily life and help them in deciding their life paths.. Children learn Vedas and other scriptures, science, history, philosophy, warfare and other skill-based subjects.. From that day Indians had huge importance to the gurus, as they are the people who were most knowledgeable and selfless to serve the nation and the kids of the nation and the society.. But in the middle ages, the gurukul system went abolished and in the British era, it was repl...

In the past, women were taken as less of an individuals than a man.. The patriarchal society lead to the rule of men in the outer world, property ownership and voting rights, while women only stayed in the household, beauty and marriages.. The main value of a woman was given based on her beauty.. From a very young age, women are taught to look pretty and behave nicely and prepare to find a nice man to get married.. This was the structure of the elitism in women.. the more a woman can look pretty and marry a rich person, the more value she has.. Although the scene was different in not-so-rich classes.. Although they didn’t have the means to look pretty they tried their best to make themselves look good and tried their best to marry a decent person.. The class structure among the women got divided based on looking good.. As it is expensive to look good, so the good looks became the highest status for women, as it signalled possible richness.. But when the 1st wave of feminism hit the wo...