Communication Filter


Friends are special to us.. We always say this thing.. But we never need to explain this to anyone, why do friends matter so much?? I guess this is because everybody knows why they are so important.. That is because we can share anything with them, about our personal lives, without thinking about it..

But it also implied one thing, that we can’t share everything with other people around us.. But why is this the case??

This refers to the situation where we hide stuff from our loved ones.. Although it seems cruel to say, this is one of the main important manners every people learn in part of their learning environment it to hide stuff from people.. We are taught from childhood that we shouldn’t lie to our parents or our loved ones, or to people in general, but the truth is that we must not always tell the truths, to the people around us.. As the people may think about us, we have different kinds of relationship with everyone around us..

I always thought to be true to the people, like to everyone.. But I oftentimes lead to problems rather than solutions.. There are certain things that are always given, that we all know about it, and we know that it is inevitable about each other, so don’t mention that.. But whenever we mention our true feelings to something to our loved ones, they may not feel the same way about our thinking to feelings, so that can lead to any kind of action from them, which can sometimes be against us, or good for us, but that always leads to some difficulties, in our own path as we should deal on our stuff by ourselves..

It is true for friends as well.. As in the past, I shared my life with one friend all the time, and they definitely had some thoughts that are not in accordance with mine.. The process of filtration in this case is very important.. As we should behave to people around us, the way they want us to behave with them.. It is not as bad, as it seems from the outside.. But it is always true that we should always do that, as it will make sure, we are not rating any problem or challenges in their life..

We can’t joke about all the stuff to everyone.. Like this, we should divide our thoughts and talk to a special person, as we shouldn’t burden one person with everything.. We should try to find the common interest with any person, and then only talk about that thing with them..

It doesn’t imply lying to anyone other than that one person or not replying when asked about us, but rather, not discussing it in the detail with anyone..

And lastly don’t forget to listen to them, we should listen not always talk about ourselves.. as I always do…😜😜😜

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