THE POWER OF NOW

Striving for the future and thinking about the past is one of the most common things people spend their life in... Although it is good to strive for the future, as thinking about the future helps us in planning thinking in advance and also helps us in preparing for what is coming, and thinking about the past helps us to learn from the past lessons and the things we did or experienced help us navigate the world better, but we never live in future or past...

From the time we are born, we have many experiences, personal, emotional, professional, social, public, etc... These experiences help us grow, and they give us an idea of what to expect in the future and what is the probability of happening it... Also past feelings and emotions help us grow, and we learn to manage our emotions better... Past works as a review sheet of our performance in life, which we review from time to time to understand our growth and things we achieved or lost... Thinking like that, past experiences are really important for all of us... 

People like me, are not too much interested in the past they are much more focused on the future... They are always thinking about the future,  making plans about the future, and thinking of ways to fulfill them... When I can't work anymore and I am tired, I sit in a place and think about a pleasant future that I can have and how I would feel relaxed, or the ways that I won't have to work more... Even when I don't want to work or do my best, I think about the future, and how working now, and pushing myself would be worth it in the future... 

Although all these things are good sides of the past and future, we should actually live in the present moment... We are humans, and we are here in the world to live... The basic and first thing we have to do is to live, and then we need to survive and procreate... As society advanced we have created many institutions and rules and regulations for everything, but we forgot to live... 

The first priority of any human is to live... And to live is to be in NOW... We will never live in the future... We will never live in the past... And the only way to live is to be in here, now... That is our only way to live... 

When we think that we were happy or sad in the past, and we ponder upon or live upon the things that happened in the past, what we don't realize is the time, the present, the moment to live now is getting out of our hand...
And when we think about being happy in the future it is also that we can never be happy in the future... Because there is nothing called the future, there is nothing called the past.. all there is NOW... 

The past you remember is just a memory, there is nothing more than that... There is no existence of it anymore... And the future you dream of may never be there, and if it ever becomes reality, you will experience it as resentment... So to experience future happiness you have to be preset... And to make your past good, you have to be present... Because what you are doing now is creating a past for your tomorrow... And the future that will be tomorrow would not be experienced if you are not present in the now... 

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

THE SHADOW PRINCES: ZODIAC ACADEMY

Image
  The fourth book in ZODIAC ACADEMY series is THE SHADOW PRINCES.. I read the ebook version, and it was 771 pages long.. but i didn't even felt a little bit of bored.. which says a lot about this book.. and by far this is my favourite book in the series.. now lets talk about things in details.. 1. lance blue romance is blossoming in this series.. although the relationship was quite strong in the previous book as well, but honestly it felt more lust than love... but in this book we get several moments of them talking and getting to know each other, which is very very romantic in my eyes.. there is a moment in which lance and darcy sit together in the couch in his living room, and they just talk.. they talk about his feelings and her feelings, which we didn't get to see very much previously.. there is another moment when lance takes darcy to a date in his ancestral home, and they spend the afternoon, eating together, and talking about their life, and just exploring his house.. th...
Read more

Why Being True To Yourself Is Very Important

Image
Finally, my view on being yourself is changed... Actually, I can say that I have grown and accepted some harsh truths that I was ignoring till now...  So when I decided to change myself and grow, I started picking out the habits that I hated in myself, and I took all of them and compared them to others, and changed them… so that I could remove all my weaknesses..  But the truth is that I was removing my strengths..  From childhood, I have been an emotional person, a hopeless romantic, and I like doing crazy stuff… like dancing on the roads with my friends just bcz I am happy or the road looks or feels good to me,... but I didn’t do that for last year and a half bcz I felt that I am bad and foolish for doing so.. But that wasn’t the case.. It was never the case..  So when I remove those aspects of my life I felt a hollow inside of me.. Bcz it is normal for me to go out and click a lot of pictures of random stuff and then edit them and post them on my socials.. Bcz I f...
Read more

RUTHLESS FAE: ZODIAC ACADEMY

 Welcome to the second book of ZODIAC ACADEMY: RUTHLESS FAE..  In the first book, we see tory and darcy struggling to stay in the magical world, where the heirs are trying their best to torture and ruin them to leave the academy.. and at the end of the book, the torture nears attempted murder.. but at last our hero Lance Orion saves the day..  Would Tory and Darcy leave this world, or they would still fight back and do their best to survive..???? it is a spoiler, but know that they are here for it.. how and when?? it is for you to read.. but you have already guessed that as you know, that the series is really really long, and they are here for it..  This is the book where, it all begins.. i mean the romance..  yup.. We het a glimpse of BlueOrion romance for the first time.. and Also the ToryDarius romance started to splutter.. We get a special BlueOrion scene, which made my heart shiver with thrill.. it would live rent free in my head forever and ever..  Th...
Read more