Adity Sanyal

 so recently I was consuming some YouTube videos, which were released at the time of COVID-19 I think.. I didn’t come across them.. but the video was about Red flags and Green flags.. so I thought about writing it in this article.. (bcz tbh I don’t have anything else to write about) there are many things that seem problematic in American society.. I don’t know if it is the result of being rich or having all the opportunities of life in their hands.. but there is something really wrong with people there.. first of all, over-emphasis on gender expression.. people are mocking humanity and also each other just to talk shit.. there is no meaning in what they are talking about.. I am not saying people should do what everyone else is doing, but just that, there should be a limit to nonsense.. like you can be an eagle as a gender, but what value does your eagleness bring to society.. then why are you focusing on it??? what does identifying as an eagle or tiger have any value to the gene...

    Losing him was blue, like I'd never known Missing him was dark gray, all alone Forgetting him was like trying to know   Somebody you never met   But loving him was red   Loving him was red This is what the 20s feel like to me.. The feeling of the sun on my skin, the thrill of not knowing your future, the job you are going to do, the thing you will spend your life doing, the person you are gonna spend it with.. Your 20s is the time when we make new friends and the old friends grow apart.. And we learn new things... If we divide our life into seasons then the 20s are the summer.. It is the time of hard work, tiredness, the excitement to be in the beach and have a nice basketball match.. The sweat and heat, and all the exhaustion.. But after all this, the next day feels even more exciting to live.. The new hopes, new dreams, new excitement... When we enter our 20s finishing college, or nearly getting over it, we think, we are adults for long enough already.. Fe...

Finally, my view on being yourself is changed... Actually, I can say that I have grown and accepted some harsh truths that I was ignoring till now...  So when I decided to change myself and grow, I started picking out the habits that I hated in myself, and I took all of them and compared them to others, and changed them… so that I could remove all my weaknesses..  But the truth is that I was removing my strengths..  From childhood, I have been an emotional person, a hopeless romantic, and I like doing crazy stuff… like dancing on the roads with my friends just bcz I am happy or the road looks or feels good to me,... but I didn’t do that for last year and a half bcz I felt that I am bad and foolish for doing so.. But that wasn’t the case.. It was never the case..  So when I remove those aspects of my life I felt a hollow inside of me.. Bcz it is normal for me to go out and click a lot of pictures of random stuff and then edit them and post them on my socials.. Bcz I f...

Striving for the future and thinking about the past is one of the most common things people spend their life in... Although it is good to strive for the future, as thinking about the future helps us in planning thinking in advance and also helps us in preparing for what is coming, and thinking about the past helps us to learn from the past lessons and the things we did or experienced help us navigate the world better, but we never live in future or past... From the time we are born, we have many experiences, personal, emotional, professional, social, public, etc... These experiences help us grow, and they give us an idea of what to expect in the future and what is the probability of happening it... Also past feelings and emotions help us grow, and we learn to manage our emotions better... Past works as a review sheet of our performance in life, which we review from time to time to understand our growth and things we achieved or lost... Thinking like that, past experiences are really im...

Life can sometimes be hard and we go through life trying to make sense of life and negotiate with what is happening around us and make life a little better... But we stubble and we fall.. We go through many things happening with us... Trauma, accidents, blessings, opportunities, and pressure and problems... We come to the negative but necessary aspects of life... Depression, anxiety, trauma, fear, jealousy, and anger... We get scared of these things, and we try to figure these things out... We either try to find a solution for our not feeling good or we completely ignore it...  This is the way many of us live there lives... As focusing on the problems we can search for therapy and other processes with are clinical that can help us get out of the feelings of sadness or worthlessness, and we want to feel better... We go to psychologists, we try counseling, we do our homework, we journal every day, and we keep track of our life every day... We do all the things that we are told to do....

Wrong people should be punished and truth and honesty must be praised.. Isn’t it right and isn’t the eternal truth from the beginning of humanity?? From the day humans created civilization and society the concept of honesty and wickedness was always present as also the concept of punishment.. Punishment is a method to create and maintain order in society.. Society is always upgrading, i.e. it is evolving and creating new and useful things for humans, and growing, technically, physically, and scientifically.. But at the same time, it is degenerating itself.. As much as society spreads and gets bigger and wiser, at the same time the increase of the ways to harm and end society.. The more we are making our walls stronger to protect ourselves, the more we are getting vulnerable to the possible end and chaos.. But we are humans, and we will try our best to believe the things that are present in society as a way to protect us and anything precious to us, we will make laws, create a justic...

We need to pay price for everything we want in our life.. If we want something nice to buy, a house, clothes, car, accessories, electronics whatever it may be, we need to pay the appropriate price for that… Many people don’t want a lot of stuff in their life, because of various reasons, like minimalism and they want to live a simplistic life.. I am not one of them though.. I love things, I love materials, and I want love.. I want people to love me and think how cool and great I am.. I want everybody to look at me and think how amazing I am and they can never reach me.. I want people in the future after 100 years to think of me and still stay in awe of me.. They should consider me a legend and a person who is immortal and have a legacy.. And I also have to pay price for that.. When we choose life, we have to pay price for the choice of life we want.. People who don't want too much, can relax and enjoy a little more because they have to pay less… But this price is not actually mo...

Feeling lost, life getting out of our hands, hopelessness, we all felt that sometimes or the other.. But these things are more common in some people than others, which leads to anxiety and depression, and other mental health problems along with various physical world failures.. Why do some people have this thought continuously when others don’t.. There are two types of people: These kinds of people when born they somehow taught that their life is out of their hands, and they have to accept anything that happens to them.. These kids believe what are they taught, and most of the time, they don’t work hard or have big dreams as they believe they just don’t have any option or chance to do anything other than what is been given to them.. The 2nd kind of people is the ones who are taught that their life is in their own hands.. They have limitless opportunities and can have anything they want, and as a result, they have big dreams and work hard to achieve them.. But these two kinds of p...